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Nov. 12th, 2009 @ 10:18 am General Updatery
I'm at my favorite coffee shop today because today is Thursday, and Thursday is my busy day.

First of all, it's always recycling. It's also fish tank changing day. Thursday is the day that I volunteer to stuff folders at Mason's school, as well. Tonight is Wyrdsmiths, which means that soon I need to go home find the handouts from last week, read and critique them, AND print out what I'm going to hand out tonight. By chance this evening is also a meeting for parents, etc., of gifted students and I agreed to go to that since it's downtown and they're going to provide my dinner (and it gets done before Wyrdsmiths starts).

Did I mention busy?

Oy.

Even so, I managed to finish Scott Westerfeld's SO YESTERDAY, which I enjoyed. The hero is a teenager named Hunter whose job it is to spot trends, sniff out cool just before it hits the mainstream. His love interest is a girl named Jen who is an Innovator, someone who invents cool just before it hits mainstream, but, consequentially, is also a bit odd and out of step in her own way. They get caught up in a mystery involving shoes. (Seriously.)

I'd really wanted to read Westerfeld's UGLY/PRETTIES series, but my library only had one that seemed to be far along in the series. SO YESTERDAY was the only one of his that they had that was self-contained. As I mentioned before I was actually a fan of Westerfeld's and didn't know it. I read both the short story and what eventually became the novel EVOLUTION'S DARLING, which I found weird, but compelling. Westerfeld has some kind of funky writing juju, I think. I suspect he shouldn't be as popular as he is, but his narrative tone/voice is strangely compelling. I wish I could figure out how to harvest that, and make it work for me.

Shawn and I also watched "My Life in Ruins" a chick-flick about a 40-something woman who works as a tour guide in Greece who finds true love with a scruffy bus driver named "Poopy." (Seriously.)

Say what you will, but I tend to really enjoy feel good movies where people find love. One thing I've learned about myself is that I'm not terribly discriminating about what I want from a movie. I was a terrible movie reviewer when I did it for focusPOINT because I'm not all that critical of these kinds of sappy, formulaic films. I get wound up about my science fiction or my angel movies and I tend to find art films obtuse and irritating, but the Hollywood formula works for me. I like my action films to run like a big advertisement for the video game with a lot of explosions, and I want my romances to be sappy and predictable.

It's embarrassing, really. Shawn inevitably looks over at me and says, horrified, "Are you sniffling???"

I don't want to talk about it. I'm easy, okay?

My folks are coming up this weekend to celebrate my birthday with me (early), and to see the Louvre exhibit at the MIA. I should probably add "clean the house" to the list of things I need to do today. Oh, but that reminds me. I need to pick up a cheese pizza for Mason and Shawn. They're going to have a movie night in my absence.

Well, I should go do something constructive... or start on my to-do list!
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Nov. 10th, 2009 @ 10:19 am Of course, NOW I'm Self-Conscious
I woke up grumpy, despite the sunshine. Grumpy and vaguely restless. I took care of some of the restlessness by cleaning up my office/the computer room a bit. I don't know about you, but I accumulate a lot of paper. Alas, some of it could be considered "important" so I can't quite just toss it in the bin. This leads to a lot of clutter. So I sorted and boxed up some of it for eventual transfer to the archives (don't laugh, I have one!)

Anyway, I can't get too comfy. I have to go schlep Shawn to her dental appointment. (We're a one car family.)
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Nov. 9th, 2009 @ 11:39 am Weekend Report
Declaimer: anyone coming here after seeing this blog listed in the Pioneer Press article, please note this is my *journal*. I write about myself. Self-indulgently. And my kids. My cats. My fish. I am NOT INTERESTING. These posts have no point, no entertainment value. If you're looking for that, go elsewhere.

That being said, here's my blog:

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A full weekend, my friends. Friday, Shawn took the day off, and we had a date day, though it ended up mostly a drive around town kind of day.

We got her haircut in Edina, drove to Roseville for lunch at our guilty pleasure: Red Lobster. Then, I sat at a Borders Cafe and surfed while Shawn checked for cute shoes at DSW. (Sadly, not more than one pair of cute, and for work, not pleasure.) We picked up photos from Walgreen's and Mason from school and rushed home so he and Shawn could have diner, and then I took off back to Minneapolis to coordinate with Steve and family and trailer who'd agreed help haul home a dresser that friends gave us. There was much hauling and grunting and breaking (but Shawn was able to fix everything) that culminated in a well-deserved, albeit impromptu LEGO date back at ours.

On Saturday, Mason ran away from home. Again.

This time, he was affronted by the fact that his mother and I insisted he eat “growing food” before having more Halloween candy. When we were forced to put the candy bowl in an unreachable place, he decided he could no longer stand to live here. He packed several books, a blanket, and a pillow. As he's not allowed to cross the street, he stomped off until he was just out of sight around the corner and lay his blanket out on the sidewalk and started reading.

Mason runs away a lot. This is the first time he's thought to pack for it, however. Apparently, while packing, he and mama discussed how much food he should bring. She suggested there would be more room for books if he just came home when he was hungry, and Mason being who he is, decided this was an excellent solution.

So no longer mad but ready for adventure, he slung his backpack over his shoulder and found a sunny spot on the sidewalk to spend several hours “running away.” I had been doing the dishes during a lot of this, but then decided I could kind of keep an eye out for our little run away while finally finishing raking the leaves out front.

We have a huge Maple on our hill that traditionally waits until the last possible moment before dumping all its gigantic yellow leaves. I'm often the last person on the block who needs to rake. This year was no exception. I raked and put heaps of leaves into our red wheelbarrow, and then rolled it around the block to dump into our backyard for later bagging or composting. (Going around is much easier than trying to push it back up our steep hill, though I think my neighbors thought it quite queer to see me hauling leaves around and around the block.) What was striking to me, however, was the absence of said neighbors. Despite sun and warm temps, we were the only ones out doing yard work.

Anyway, while I was raking, one of the “geezers” stopped by to talk.

There are these two really ancient guys that always briskly walk through the neighborhood every single day. They're hunched over and shuffling. They always look grumpy as hell, and, often, when I attempt to wave hello or sing a cheery “good morning,” they glare at me out from under bushy, white eyebrows. Since we see them every day, Shawn and I have dubbed them “the geezers.”

That day, the younger of the two actually called out a hello and asked if we were the parents of the little girl up at the corner of the block. I didn't correct the geezer at first because, well, he was TALKING to me and SMILING and I wanted to encourage this. (Mason, however, doesn't *not* look at all like a girl. His hair is cut in a buzz, and he dresses relatively boyish. But, I suppose if you were blind as a bat, as I suspect these guys might be, his voice is high pitched and he's awfully articulate, a trait many people associate with girls rather than boys. ) Anyway, the younger geezer goes on to tell us (Shawn had come out by this time) how enchanted he was with Mason, who we've by now explained is a boy, because he was just so charming lying in the middle of the sidewalk. The geezer said, in fact, that in the sun, Mason looked just like an angel.

How nice!

It was both the longest and the most pleasant conversation we ever had with either of them, and, as I told Shawn, when he walked away that I wondered if this meant that they had finally forgiven us for moving into Old Man Windy's house (for years people in the neighborhood gave us the business for having gotten rid of Old Man Windy's rotten, but apparently legendary, couch off our porch.)

At lunch time, Mason came back with a report about his adventure. He'd seen a Slumberland delivery truck bring a new bed to someone, another neighbor out walking her dog, and had a nice old guy talk to him. He sat on our newly raked boulevard and kept reading for a while, while I finished up, and then we all went in for sandwiches.

He later said, “It's nice being on your own sometimes, isn't it?”

It is, indeed.

Sunday was the day of projects. Mason decided he wanted to start a quilt as well as work on the LEGO Millennium Falcon. Mama and I had decided Sunday would be our semi-regular roasted chicken with all the trimmings diner. So I made bread while they sewed and sorted.

All and all a good weekend.
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Nov. 5th, 2009 @ 10:10 am Last Frontier of Human Rights... The Toilet
My favorite coffee shop is in a mall and thus, doesn't have a public toilet of its very own. The women's bathroom has been under construction for several days now. The nearest alternative requires leaving the building and going to a gas station or a book store. Or... braving the toilet of the opposite sex.

I've always found the insistence that men and women have separate bathrooms a strange relic of some distant past. Not unlike "Colored Only" except that's a REALLY BAD ANALOGY. But listen for a second: I know you guys like your urinals, but, you don't NEED them. Stalls provide privacy for all, regardless of gender. (Also, having now had experience hiding out in a stall waiting for you guys to do your business and leave... urinals seem to encourage bad hygiene. You do your thing and leave. No pause to wash hands. One word, boys: GROSS!) Perhaps if we all shared bathrooms, there would a kind of collective guilt that would cause people of both genders to stop and wash their hands before leaving.

The point is: why do we insist on separating the genders this way? It's not like houses are equipped with two separate bathrooms. Why public places?

Okay, enough of my own personal weirdness, how are you?

Mason didn't want to go to school today. He may have a bit of a sore throat for real (he's been coughing at night), but any excuse for him. It's a different reality. I was very much a big fan of school, but, honestly, I wasn't nearly as smart as Mason. I was a high achiever type, who loved all the projects and such. Mason just wants to stay home and pursue his own interests.

It's also picture re-take day today. His official picture was funky. The photographer decided that kids should smile with their mouths closed. Mason was clearly baffled by this request and his face looks strained and confused. Hopefully, a different photographer will let him laugh, like his kindergarden picture.

Today is Thursday, which means I need to go home in a few minutes and do all my Thursday chores: change the fish tanks, take out recycling, and get ready to go off to volunteer at Mason's school. Tomorrow, you won't see me because I've got plans and they don't include you. Shawn is taking the day off and we're going to pamper ourselves. We need a TGIF.
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Nov. 4th, 2009 @ 10:18 am Let out early for good behavior
Today is an early release day for Mason. I'm hoping the weather will turn nicer and we can finish raking up the leaves that my tardy Maple tree finally dumped on our front yard. I suspect he will also attempt to talk me into heading out to a Barnes & Noble or a HPB to look for Goosebumps, which is what he wants to spend some of his gift money on. (Money for my German sales came, and we each get a little moola to spend on totally frivolous things. I should probably not have offered books, as we generally buy Mason whatever books he wants, but I said it. And, as you know, Bob, once a parent says something they have to stick with it.)

I've been working on RESURRECTION CODE. I wrote a little about why this project has been so slow going for me over at Wyrdsmiths, and some time ago I had another epiphany. It's not fun writing about Mouse before Deidre and angels and all that. So, I've come up with a way for the book to be actually a sequel and a prequel. Clever, no? The important thing is that it seems to be working.

Last night, I accidentally tuned into "Biggest Loser." I've never watched a minute of that show partly because I find it beyond post-modern to be sitting on my big, fat a$$ watching other people work out and mocking them for not losing enough weight to stay on the show. The show was just about as awful as I suspected it would be, only worse, because I realized that the people most likely to be booted are the people who most need to stay on. And that just makes me sad. Shawn and I tried to figure out what people get out of watching. What's the point of that show? Is it all about seeing large people in spandex and thinking, "Thank God/dess that's not me (yet)!"? Is it for the jiggle porn?

Then we went on to be vaguely disappointed by the newest-to-us "Dexter" disc. We're on episode 8 "The Damage a Man Can Do" in Season 3. If you don't have an episode guide handy, this is the one in which Dexter introduces Miguel to "the code" and Miguel, let's just say, reveals his darker nature. Shawn and I noted this morning that what we loved about the show was never the gruesome bits. What we liked was the character study of a sociopath, aka "the little wooden boy." We miss the voiceovers and Dexter baffled by human nature. We miss moments when Dexter struggles to pass.

I remain interested by Dexter's relationship with Rita, but Shawn just finds her annoying. We'll have to see if this is one of those shows, like BSG that we just quit hoping that we picked a good spot before the dancing robot montage ruins the entire experience for us.

In political news, I have to rant slightly. Hey, CNN, two local-yokel governors does not equal two seats in the House. This was not a Republican victory, okay? Also, we lost Maine, but we won Washington state. So shut up with your doom and gloom, all ready will ya? Stop buying the right's bull. Be a real news agency and report the facts: 8 dem wins, 2 republican wins. If you want to comment about "mandates", put down the facts first.

*sigh*

And I'm one of several thousand people who is disappointed with the instant run-off win in Saint Paul. Most of the people I know who voted for the "Australian ballot" have never used one. The Hugo awards are decided by instant run-off, and my personal opinion is that the second best story tends to win. I watched Eleanor lose a win for "Stellar Harvest" (the popular #1 choice according the LOCUS) because she wasn't everyone's favorite #2 spot. A friend of mine and I argued a bit about this this morning, and he suggested that politics are just going to be campaigned differently and instant run-off is going to break the Republican strangle hold on politics when two liberal candidates are up against one conservative. I said I hoped he was right, but that I'd bet he'd be disappointed the first time it happened in reverse or something that people were really passionate about hit the ballot like a divisive referendum for something like gay marriage. In those cases, I'd bet money that people will be pissed because passion will be out voted by the option everyone is "mostly okay with" and that kind of watered down answer will, frankly, suck.

But what can you do about it, eh?
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Nov. 3rd, 2009 @ 10:51 am Halloween, Oh Yeah
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We had a great Halloween. You?

Mason was invited to a party in the afternoon, but as the costume he chose for the evening festivities was kind of, shall we say, high maintanence, he went as Arthur Dent. He's been listening to the radio play for HITCHHICKERS GUIDE TO THE GALAXY (the way I first got introduced to that universe,) and thought throwing a towel over his shoulder was a pretty neat idea (as are digital watches.) Since this party was hosted by people who would GET who he was dressed as, which is to say geeks and nerds (yay team!), we went with that. I also dug out of the closet my old Captain Kirk outfit and tossed on a pair of black jeans and black socks (and my Converses, but I knew I'd be taking those off.) Alas, the Captain seems to have gotten a demotion! At some point the dashes between the two solid (wavy) lines fell off. I'm now a commander. What the hey! Although it was pointed out at the party that this is well in keeping with the character of Kirk who was often demoted due to any number of Federation infractions. Plus, over the last, er, thirty years since my mother sewed it for me, it's gotten tight ....and ripped. I went as the paunchy Kirk after a good fight (and a demotion.) If only they'd served Romulan ale!

Which is a little like drinking Russian vodka during the cold war, isn't it? I was always struck by the fact that the best alcohol was apparently made by the Federation's enemy and smuggled across the borders. Is THAT why we were fighting the Romulans? To get their beer???

Actually, that makes a weird kind of sense, doesn't it?

That evening, we got ready for the big Sargent Street extravaganza. This was our third year going down to Sargent Street in Saint Paul. I've told you about this before, but for those of you just now tuning in, Sargent Street is this one block party. The police block it off. Nearly every house on the block participates by doing their houses up like haunted houses and such. There are lights and ghosts on wires and Morse Dancers in the streets (I'm NOT making that last part up.) They expect nearly 2,000 visitors. Everyone is in costume. Everyone is outside, ringing door bells and shouting "Trick or Treat" just like when we were kids (okay, no one in LaCrosse went this all out, but it was traditional to walk around and actually visit your neighbors.)

For this big thing, Mason went as a scary scarecrow. We stuffed him with actual hay. We put a burlap sack over his head, cut eye holes and drew on a scary face. He wore a straw hat and gloves with fake clawes poking out of them. He looked, quite honestly, VERY freaky. It was a really good costume. We got a lot of compliments. I took some pictures, but, as most of you know, I suck at figuring out how to post such things. If I can, I will. It's well worth seeing both the Arthur Dent costume and the scarecrow.

Mason had a great time, and I'm glad he's getting the experience of going door-to-door, even if it's not in our neighborhood. Our neighborhood is pathetic, really. We decorated like crazy. We had ghost lights and blinking eyeballs, and spiders and webs and the house looked great. Since Shawn had never seen Sargent Avenue before, we decided to go on the honor system. We left a big bowl of candy out and asked people to help themselves. Usually we get less than a half dozen visitors. When we came home an hour later the entire bowl was empty. Someone decided to help themselves to all of it, I suspect. We weren't surprised, but a little disappointed anyway. The good news is that the thief got crap candy. It was lemonheads and other sour candies. Good luck eating all that without getting horribly sick, my friend. Two words: Instant Karma.

I need to go do some errands and do some writing. See ya!
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Nov. 2nd, 2009 @ 10:08 am Full Moon Madness
Happy full moon, everyone. It's ironic, really. I have been really terrible about keeping this blog up-to-date, but one day I did.... someone was listening. I got an email from a reporter from the PIONEER PRESS on Friday asking if s/he could excerpt part of my Wednesday post for an article s/he is doing on local bloggers. So look for it in a Sunday entertainment edition coming up at some point.

I think I should be grateful I wasn't nattering on about my fish that day.

In other news, I got an e-mail from my papa who is currently teaching in Wales. Apparently, the travel gods literally threw trees in his path... or rather onto the railroad tracks. Everyone is fine, but there were lots of delays getting to where he was going, I guess. Those travel gods can be very fickle. That's why Shawn and I always carry the "travel stone" whenever we go anywhere. It's really just a piece of gravel I picked up from an alley in Minneapolis, but it's now been all over the world and much of the United States.

What happened was that I wanted to go to the Powderhorn Art Fair many, many moons ago when Shawn and I still lived in Uptown. I figured it would be easier to walk there, given the parking situation. We started out, but it was hot and Shawn decided she'd rather go home. Shawn, if you don't know, has a TERRIBLE sense of direction, which is one of the reasons that I usually drive. I really wanted to keep going, but she was really set on going back. But she was worried she'd get lost. So, I picked up a piece of gravel and handed it to her. She looked at me like I was crazy and said, "What's this?" I said, "It's magic. You can't get lost as long as you have it."

And she made it home, so we figured it did have a bit of magic in it, and we've taken it on every trip we've gone on since.

Sometimes if we're really worried about the wrath of the travel gods (like the one time we landed in Gatwick and the fire trucks came out on to the tarmack to greet us because the landing gear light was stuck in the "not deployed" mode. It turned out to be one of the smoothest landings ever, but I can't remember being more scared when the captain came on the intercom to tell us that we might not have wheels. We might just have to do a belly flop. Not cool!) Anyway, when we're nervous, we will sometimes send postcards home with notes like, "Hi, Lyda, Hi Shawn, glad you made it back home safely! What a pleasant trip! Everything was on time. No delays!"

Mason's reading camp went really well. Did I tell you about this? I actually thought Mason was making this up because it seemed so much like a dream come true for him. He told his mama (whom he has been known to pull the wool over with things like "mining lab") that his first grade class was going to have reading camp last Friday where everyone got to bring a sleeping bag, a stuffed animal, and books to read ALL DAY LONG. I thought, "No way! That's just too awesome." Turns out, it was what they did. They had breaks where they made bookmarks and had guest readers (I was one of them), but otherwise it was reading. Mason took THE HOBBIT, which he's been enjoying re-reading. I think he's read it three times already.

My attempt as guest reader was pretty... uh, interesting, as we say here in Minnesota. Alas, the teacher decided that while I read she'd prepare the s'mores and have kids come up and get them in waves. Suffice to say, the attention was NOT on me and "Hallow-Weiner" by Dav Plinkey (author of CAPTAIN UNDERPANTS). But, you know, having taught six to ten year olds Cartooning as part of "college for kids," I was at least prepared for the countless screaming Argonauts that is a distracted first grade classroom.

Oops, it looks like it's time for me to get ready to go. Today is the day I go to the coffeeshop and write with a number of the Wyrdsmiths. And, yes, my friends, I will be working on RESURRECTION CODE. It's my intention to focus on that book until the end of the year. I really hope to have it done and off to the publisher by Christmas. Wish me luck!
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